Traveling with a loved one who has dementia is not only possible but can also contribute to their quality of life, according to medical professionals. While they may not remember the trip later, the immediate joy and engagement are valuable. However, caregivers must adjust their expectations, as travel will differ significantly from past experiences. It's crucial to consult with the individual's doctor to assess their stage of dementia and determine the necessary support level.
Key considerations for dementia-friendly travel include adapting trip duration and location, such as choosing domestic weekend getaways over international, week-long excursions. Activities should be fewer, and significant extra time should be budgeted for all aspects of the trip, from airport security to daily routines. AARP highlights that a major cruise taken by Theresa Armao, who had dementia, was enjoyed by her in the moment despite not being remembered later, demonstrating the value of such experiences. However, a subsequent disastrous return flight underscored the challenges and led the family to scale back future travel ambitions.
Caregivers should prioritize support by either hiring a professional caregiver, joining dementia-friendly excursions with care staff, or enlisting family and friends. Advance preparation is essential, including getting prescriptions for anxiety medication and antibiotics, booking direct flights, informing airlines about disabilities to secure assistance like wheelchairs, and utilizing resources like TSA Cares. For car travel, researching rest areas with family restrooms and booking handicap-accessible, full-service hotels with on-site amenities are recommended.
Financial costs for dementia-friendly travel can be substantially higher than typical trips, potentially ranging from $8,000 to $15,000 for a two-week trip that might normally cost $2,000 for a solo traveler. These expenses cover private or accessible accommodations, additional airfare if hiring help, meals out to reduce caregiver stress, and potential costs for local assistance. Emergency medical costs and the possibility of extending a trip due to unforeseen medical or behavioral events can further increase expenses. Caregivers are advised to get comprehensive cost quotes for all aspects of the trip, including an emergency buffer, and to recognize when the emotional and financial strain outweighs the benefits of travel for their own well-being.
